NZ Made Wedding Invitations & Stationery
Planning wedding stationery can be overwhelming, but with a well-organised timeline, you can ensure everything runs smoothly. This wedding invitation timeline has been developed to help New Zealand couples identify the important milestones to meet when planning, ordering and sending wedding stationery and invitations.
Planning a wedding is an exciting journey, but it can also be overwhelming with countless details to manage. One critical aspect is knowing when to send out your wedding invitations. Sending your wedding invitations out at the right time is crucial for ensuring your guests have all the necessary information to plan for and attend your big day. This blog post provides a detailed guide on when to send your wedding invitations, considering New Zealand’s cultural norms, to help you achieve smooth and stress-free wedding planning.
(more…)Ask any couple how their wedding planning is going with only a few weeks to go, and you’re guaranteed to hear a rant of some sort on guests, and RSVPing – or the lack thereof! As tempting as it is to spitefully leave them off the seating plan and pointedly mention they didn’t actually say they were coming… don’t. The thought of them turning up will stress you out and distract you from enjoying the guests who did RSVP!
Remember, they may think they have RSVPed. Perhaps they told your Dad at the rugby game, expecting him to pass it on (yeah right). Maybe they posted the RSVP card back and forgot to add a stamp. More than likely, one half of the couple thinks their other half has RSVP’ed already, and vice versa! Approach your guests with this mindset and you’ll avoid offending anyone who has done their duty.
If there are a lot of missing RSVPs, then consider enlisting a parent, your fiancé or bridesmaids to help chase. If they have a closer personal connection to the guest, they may have better luck eliciting a response when they reach out. I know I’d be more likely to flick back a casual “yep, just trying to sort the babysitter” to a close friend than replying to a message from my partner’s workmate’s fiancee that I’ve only met once.
It’s also likely that some guests will be dragging the chain because they can’t make the wedding. They could be shy or embarrassed about saying no directly. I know all you want is a response! But people don’t like to let other people down, and so they could be procrastinating. Following up with them is really doing them a favour… which leads us to…
When all else fails and you still have stragglers, never fear! We have the solution. Once your RSVP date has passed, chase your slack non-RSVPing wedding guests with our magic RSVP email. Send out a blanket email (use the BCC function) and remind them firmly – but politely -:
“Hey everyone, I really need to get confirmed numbers from our wedding guests ASAP – got to keep the caterers happy! If we haven’t heard from you by Monday, I’ll have to assume you can’t make it. Looking forward to catching up at a later date. Love, The Nearlyweds”.
This message is great because it gives you certainty for your final numbers, saves you from dealing with guests who ignore or ghost your message, and puts the ‘blame’ on someone other than you (the ‘caterers’). Give it a try and see how you get on!
And if you’re reading this post but haven’t sent your wedding invitations yet, then be sure to read up on the best practices for setting an RSVP date, because hitting that sweet spot can save you all sorts of grief.
Save the Date Cards are used to announce your wedding date to your wedding guests, giving your friends and family the best possible chance of attending. Today’s post shares everything you need to know:
(more…)You’ve got a colour scheme, sussed out a guest list and have decided on the when and where. Now let’s get to the nitty gritty. Wording your wedding invitations is a minefield of etiquette and detail to dodge. So how do you write traditional wedding invitations?
Your wedding invitations communicate important information to your guests. Of course, the all-important who, when and where – but also information on the type of wedding they can expect to attend. Does your invite say cocktail dress and fancy up-do, or jeans and a nice top?
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